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The Democratic Circus: It’s Election Season

And they’re off! The Canadian federal election has been called. Peptalks, my-party’s-better-than-your-party, the pundits punditizing before there’s much scope for punditocracy. Ah, well. Democracy’s not so bad, you know, although we still have lots to learn about how to do it rather than having it done for us (to us?). But I had a delicious little surge of irony when the first bit of tune-age I played over breakfast today was the Talking Heads album Naked. Awesome stuff, the last vinyl album I ever bought though my kids buy ‘em all the time. Track one on side two is “The Democratic Circus”…

 Found out this morning / There’s a circus coming to town
 They drive in Cadillacs / Using walkie-talkies and the Secret Service
 Their big top / Imitation of life
 And all the flags and microphones / We have to cover our eyes

 We play the sideshows / And we like the tunnel of love
 And when we ride the ferris wheel / We’re little children again
 And when they’re asking for volunteers / We’ll be the first ones aboard
 And when the ringmaster calls our names / We’ll be the first ones to go…
 To sleep

 Stealing all our dreams / Dreams for sale / They’ll sell ‘em back to you
 On with the show! / Start the parade! / We sang along! / Sweep us away!
 It’s political party time / Going down, going down
 And the celebrities all come out / Coming down, coming down…

 Well, I enjoyed myself.

We’re Overboard on Bullying

Like most parents and as a former teacher, I’m concerned about bullying. Mainly, I’m worried that we’re worrying about it so much. The words of Barbara Coloroso, an American educator who’s one of our sanest voices on parenting and education, come to mind. “Rescue, rescue!” is her sarcastic reference to the desperate attempts of adults to save their kids from, well, what exactly? We all agree that we need to do what we reasonably can to protect our children from physical and moral danger. But in trying to protect every last kid from taunting, from falling off his bike, from having to actually walk to her school, we’ve surely gone over the edge.

It is amazing that, in among the safest parts of the world, affluent North Americans  are the most obsessed about safety. Sometimes, this is to our credit as a society. But too often, we mistake discomfort for genuine danger, and give psychiatric labels to the normal changes and chances of life. It’s as if we think our privilege extends to the point where no child of ours should ever experience difficulty.

Don’t mistake me. I’m not advocating carelessness or the law of the jungle. But, for example, Ontario’s Safe Schools Act and the millions to implement it do strike me as another example of what we were calling the “add-on curriculum” when I started teaching back in the 1980s. Schools have difficulty doing what they do best when they are responsible for everything, for what families and neighbourhoods and clubs and congregations and a child’s own resiliency were once expected to take care of.

I don’t mean to slag the initiative. I know it comes from noble intent and intelligent people. But imagine (he dreamily noted) if schools were funded so that student-teacher ratios were dramatically lowered, if class sizes never exceeded 12-15 in primary, or 20 in intermediate grades. A lot of the problems of bullying – and of illiteracy, and of poverty, and of alienation – would quickly be lessened if the bullies weren’t cloaked in the invisibility of large, factory-like schools where teachers have all they can do to maintain a shadow of order. Bullying is generally a symptom of a larger problem, and crowded schools is one of them.

The attempt to end bullying is also a symptom of a culture of fear, and our social compulsion to control. When this is applied to children beyond a reasonable level, its results are less dramatic but even more harmful than the ill we are trying to treat. We risk, in overprotection, producing children who are convinced of their victimhood, their need for protection. Kids are worth our attention, but they are also worthy of respect for their resourcefulness, not to mention the resources allocated to the schools that work with them.

Moms Are The Bomb

Beezer finally brought ‘round the new little package. I’d seen it before, usually during lunch, but it was always under wraps. The B plays her cards pretty close to the vest, but this was extreme even for a tough lady like her. She’d asked a lot of Good Consumer questions in advance, she’s bright, and nobody’s going to push her around. You know the kind: knows her job, wants to do it right, sure that her way is good. She also boxes, just for fun and fitness. She loves to laugh, but can stone you at ten paces with a glare.

Yes, and I was so happy when I found out that her belly was rounding for a reason! We got to see more tender silliness at work, and anybody who’s been around pregnant women recognized that distant look in her eye (“Is Squishy on the move?” “Oh, yeah. Friggin’ hyperbean at the moment.”) Well, Squishy turned out to be a pink little human female and is working hard to outgrow her in utero handle. Tarah, she is. And Queen B is the sweetest and goofiest and most dedicated mother. It looks wonderful on her. Never got to be dad to a girl unit, but Tarah felt just fine in the crook of my arm. A thing to remember about men and women: we were all little puddles of cooing goo in the arms of our mother and fathers. (Most of us, anyway, thank goodness.) We all came in blind and hungry, ready to learn and yearning to grow. We were all magnets for love, and everything else has just been the dressing on a splendid human salad.

Hey, Tarah, thanks for letting your Mommy come out to play.

Remembrance Day. A Touch of Bruce.

I almost forgot to emerge from my second-floor grotto for 11 a.m., but the Green Lady had the day off and she helped me remember. We don’t watch a lot of television, but the dear ol’ CBC had the national memorial on screen, and we were able to tune it in. Diana held one wire of our 19th-century TV antenna, and I held the other. Neither of us needed to stand on one foot this time; my left hand was raised, her right, and our wee bouts of sobbing as the wreaths were laid did nothing to disturb our tenuous grasp on the signal. Another thing to be thankful for, along with Silver Cross mothers, Parliament’s eternal flame and those faithful old fellows. Thanks to them, thanks for all.

Another small bout of gratitude, too, because Radio One programming, which we’d turned on for better sound, went straight to Sounds Like Canada and did it ever: Shelagh Rogers was interviewing Bruce Cockburn. He has a new album, which I’d like to take credit for. I’ve been thinking for a long time that he should put out an album of his brilliant finger-picking instrumental pieces. Well, not that I ever told anybody, but I guess they picked up on my brainwaves. (Mighty buggers, they are.) Speechless is the new album, a bunch of the best guitar work Bruce Almighty has done along with a few new pieces. He sat for half an hour and played some, talked some, in studio. Superb in both languages.

Too Old for Treats

The cutest little 5-year-old vegetarian vampire went our marauding our neighbourhood with his Mummy this evening. The teeth were intimidating, but he refused to have any blood seeping from the corner of his mouth, or any threatening makeup. Blonde hair and dimples were unimpeded, the sweetness unalloyed. He carried a UNICEF donation box, for goodness’ sake.

And speaking of that, Count Samuel was the only one I saw collecting for UNICEF the whole night. There’s an idea that seems to have gone the way of McRibs. What I noticed most, apart from the beautiful innocence of the smallest fairies and felines, was more fuel for my annual Hallowe’en rant. I didn’t, again, have the heart to do more than josh and harass them as I dropped chocolate into their pillowcases, but there’s something about teenagers trick-or-treating that gets me growling. Have some self-respect, kideroons…

This Word is Unacceptable

Mr. Martin did it again. I can’t even remember what he was indignant about this time. Everything after he, again, dropped the ubiquitous “U bomb” faded into irrelevance for this word-weary wanker. It drives me nuts. Can anyone tell me when and why the word “unacceptable” became the most stirring (and the most repetitive) expression of dismay or disapproval that our public voices can summon? How can a word be so clear and yet so toothless?

Unacceptable is what your handwriting is when your partner can’t tell what you want at the grocery store. Unacceptable describes an undeserved compliment or an invitation to a party you’d never attend in a hundred years. Surely we can find something less tweedy, less bureaucratic, less parson-ish to describe scandalous immorality and international brutality. Come on, Paul. You have good writers. You guys can do it. Your present vocabulary is just, well, you know…

Passion on the Radio

If you missed Stephen Lewis on CBC Radio 1’s Sounds Like Canada today – and most Canadians do – then you missed something spectacular, Wagnerian, Olympian. That is, if global indifference to massive suffering is your idea of greatness. (Yet it is “great”, in the sense of “of enormous scale or importance”, in the sense that World War I was the “Great War” until its sequel arrived. Not so much, I admit, in the low-impact vernacular “Great party, eh?” sense. End of Great Paranthetical Remark.) If you’re interested in more, I wrote “We Should All Be Listening” for Wednesday journals. So far, no takers.

A School With Heart & Soul

I spent a terrific Saturday in the library of a local elementary school, sitting around with other moms and dads and grandmas. (The guy knows how to party.) We were trying to learn a few things about how to do our parenting, our partnering, and all our family and community relationships better. My youngest son goes to a school that uses Steiner educational principles. If you’ve heard of “Waldorf” schools and methods, that’s the more common name for schools that are based on the teachings of the philosopher Rudolf Steiner. Anyway, though I’ve been in education and childrearing since, oh, the invention of chalk, there was good stuff there.

A consultant named Gene Campbell had been brought in, and she helped us all to learn a little more about this approach to education that is doing such fine things for our kids, and which has such promise for the building of communities, too. I wrote an article for local press consumption, which you can find in the On Second Thought section of this site.

We Should All Be Listening to Lewis

Yesterday morning, I certainly had other work to do, but I got waylaid by the words of Stephen Lewis. Again. My wonky CD player refused to play, so I flipped to radio instead. Before I could find a music station, there was Stephen Lewis, Canada’s closest thing to public service sainthood. (And, not just by the way, there was the Mighty Canadian Broadcasting Corporation’s Radio 1. ‘Bout time, but I’m grateful anyway. Hello again, Shelagh!)

Sounds Like Canada was the program, and if only the public voice of this country was consistently as eloquent, as impassioned, as ferociously good as Stephen Lewis’s is, we would be the conscience of the world. We’d be changing it. If you don’t know who he is, you should. He was a New Democratic Party politician, one of Ontario’s youngest elected Members of Provincial Parliament, and the party’s leader for a time. He is someone that thoughtful Canadians have loved to listen to, even when they were on the opposite side of the political fence. He is well beyond politics now. After all, can you name a party that is in favour of disease and death?

Lewis has more recently been Canada’s Ambassador to the United Nations, a key guy at UNICEF, and for the last few years, he has put his entire being on the line as Special Envoy to the U.N.’s Secretary-General for AIDS in Africa. He is a voice crying in the wilderness, it must sometimes seem to him, but what a voice!

Here is what he said about another of our Canadian heroes of noble frustration, General Roméo Dallaire. Lewis was reviewing Dallaire’s Shake Hands With the Devil, his witness to the Rwandan slaughter. Lewis wrote, “Here was a man who screamed into the void. No one listened, no one cared, no one heard. But he never stopped screaming. He valued every human life. He wept for every human loss. He never gave up.” It takes one to know one, I’d say.

Stephen Lewis speaks in gorgeous sentences, even paragraphs, so his is a peculiarly artful scream about another African holocaust, where more than half the world’s HIV-positive people live and where hundreds die every day. “I have spent the last four years watching people die,” Lewis says. “Die unnecessarily,” he adds for what must be the ten thousandth time. And people are listening, people and governments do care, but the pace of response is maddeningly slow.

He reels at the lack of urgency in rolling out effective medications that are available right now. He rages that promised resources from Western governments are filtering through at only half the pledged rate. He rails at his own employers, the United Nations, for not quickly taking advantage of the international trust and the talent at their disposal. And it is a source of rueful pain to Stephen Lewis that his own country, the one that challenged the world’s wealthy nations to commit 0.7 percent of their Gross Domestic Product to international development, is nowhere near this development goal. Our great statesman Lester Pearson first suggested this target in 1969, but only a few northern European nations actually meet it. “The United States thumbs its nose at it”, Lewis says, and Canada doesn’t do much better in this commitment to global justice. And he can’t understand why.

The entire social fabric of a continent is unravelling. Whole generations of teachers and doctors, mothers and fathers are disappearing. “In Malawi, which has, what, 10 or 12 million people, there are two pediatricians left!” Lewis tells of visiting a hospital there. On the night shift, caring for 60-70 patients at the end of their struggle with AIDS – “patients who would be in intensive care in Canada” – was ONE nurse. One. He is obsessed and exhausted by the overwhelming flood of numbers like this and stories like this, stories of people that he has visited and comforted and profoundly mourned. I’ve heard him speak in person three times in the past two years. Each time, I have wept desperately and wondered, How long can he keep doing this?

I wept again yesterday morning. Shelagh Rogers, I think, managed not to, but she had the same question. Lewis says he wants to stay at it until he sees the tide turning on this pandemic, which will kill tens of millions if it doesn’t turn soon. He looks for that point where the masses of infected and affected people – poignantly, the burden is disproportionately carried by women and by innumerable orphans – can have some hope that help is indeed coming. He thinks that could be in the next 18 months or so, if the lumbering apparatus of international action could be moved to act. Disasters on a far smaller scale – the Indian Ocean tsunami, hurricanes in the southern United States, and the Pakistan earthquake – prove that the world can be a compassionate and responsive place. The pandemic of AIDS, though, unfolds more slowly, with fewer dramatic images, and for many reasons seems to require more planning, and a more humane and more concentrated kind of imagination.

And Mr. Lewis’s plans? His disposition, and his political upbringing, tell him to “keep on fighting!” Well, last night [October 18] in Vancouver, he gave the first of his five Massey Lectures. Winnipeg, Montreal, Halifax and Toronto will follow. He titles the lectures “Race Against Time”, and it is his current survey of the situation faced especially by sub-Saharan Africa in dealing with the AIDS pandemic. “Don’t ever think the African nations can’t do it themselves, if they are given the help they need,” he says. And will keep on saying. Over and over again. In that erudite, cracking, not-quite-despairing voice that is one of Canada’s great gifts to the world.

The Massey Lectures will be on CBC Radio’s Ideas program in the week of November 7-11. You can find out more about AIDS in Africa, and how you can help, at StephenLewisFoundation.org .

From Blog to Movement. (.com?)

So what’s the point of this website? In an earlier conception, Mad Martin had called the site “Howden Movement”, and I was perplexed.

“What, I’m a movement already? The masses are going to rally behind my brilliant leadership on the way to, um, well, wherever it is I’m going?”

“No, no, not exactly, it was more like—“

“Howden Movement. Howden Movement. Sounds like a promo for laxatives, or something. You know, BMs? Does anybody call them that any more? Nurses, maybe?”

“No, not really, it was just—“

Not that I was going to let Businessman Martin get a word in edgewise or anywise. Because this was my website, first and only, and I’m a Name Guy, shoulda seen how long it took to name my kids (or my intramural flag football team, for that matter). I kept running prospective names by whatever unfortunate soul happened to call me or walk by. Not to mention that The Perfect Choices were already taken. Probably some greasy speculator in domain names, selfish jerk!

And then I remembered why I’d consulted My Favourite Martin in the first place – he knows how to make things happen, and JamesHowden.com is now one of them. Nifty! The whole point of the site is to get some of my writing out there, to get ME in motion toward long-imagined destinations. (Howden Movement: that would be the opposite of HowdInertia.) So, this is a shameless forum for my ideas and projects. It may prompt you to write to me, and this would be delicious. (I can’t promise replies, but the world is full of possibility. If you catch clumsy thinking, heaven forbid, typos, let me know. Keep in mind that Canadian spelling does have stronger links to French sources for English words, like “centre” and “odour”.)